Couples Sessions
Space to Express Yourself
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Support to Come Together Again
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Space to Express Yourself • Support to Come Together Again •
I bring a somatic, or body based, approach to every session. This is informed by my training in Somatic Experiencing® which shifts the focus from our cognitive experience to our bodily experience. This somatic approach, utilized alongside Gottman and EFT training and interventions, help couples argue less and discuss more. My approach is trauma informed, focused on harm reduction, and holistic.
My Somatic Approach
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A trauma-informed approach aims to help you develop a sense of safety with your therapist through unconditional empathy and careful attention to your emotional experience. While I recognize many traumas are ongoing, I hope to provide you with some tools you can use when the world inside and outside feels overwhelming. I will support you in processing traumatic material at a pace that feels right for your nervous system.
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Harm Reduction is a more nuanced option than abstinence. Every relationship we’re a part of has risks and benefits, including but not limited to our relationships to drugs. At One Drop at a Time, I hold a harm reduction lens when working with clients around behaviors that may involve some risk - from drug use, to who you date, I will meet you where you are and walk shoulder to shoulder with you. Instead of stigmatizing or shaming, I create space to explore with curiosity, and help you define for yourself what you want your life to look like and what might be getting in the way of making changes.
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Many aspects of our lives affect our mental health, including community, physical health, basic needs, sexuality, gender, class, disability, spirituality, experiences of marginalization, and more. Instead of seeing these issues as separate, I consider all parts of your lived experience to be relevant to healing. At times, I may invite you to review resources to support your healing process, or help you navigate complex systems.
Also, I learned from my IFS training that each individual is multiplicity - meaning, we are made up of many, many, MANY parts. Giving each part respect is of utmost importance. They each were born out of and played a major role in your story- before asking them to change, we need to make sense of them; hear them.
What are sessions like?
Using the same relational, compassionate and nervous system-aware communication style I use in individual therapy, I help you each slow down and see, then with some practice, feel… then.. receive from your partner their continued interest in you, and you them.
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Couples sessions are $225
If you would like to utilize insurance Stacey is in network with:
BCBS PPO and Blue choice
United Healthcare/Optum
Aetna
Cigna/Evernorth
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This video tells the compassionate story of the healing process of Ray, a marine who was injured by two explosive devices, had his closest friend die in his arms, and was diagnosed with both severe PTSD and Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI).
He was brought to see Dr. Levine after developing chronic pain, depression, Tourette-like convulsions, cognitive problems, and insomnia due to night terrors.
In a series of documented Somatic Experiencing® sessions, including Ray's family, Peter demonstrates the power of SE™ as a tool to heal the wounds of war.
For follow-up, Ray attended a Somatic Experiencing trauma healing retreat for Military Veterans with Dr Levine that took place in Maine in 2019.
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Somatic Experiencing® through Somatic Experiencing® International - I have completed Intermediate 1 and training is ongoing!
IFS Informed
Gottman Level 1
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) Informed
Alchemy Ketamine Provider Training
Institute for Meditation and Psychotherapy year-long training certificate
MAPS MDMA-assisted therapy/Transpersonal Therapy
Relational, Psychodynamic Approach to healing
Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) Certification
Yoga Teacher (YT) 200hr certification
Why couples choose to
start seeing a therapist…
Some of the things the partners or couples I have been successful in helping have started therapy saying:
“I feel like we’re roommates.”
“I feel like I am their parent.”
“We just keep saying the same things to each other, no matter what we are fighting about.”
“It’s impossible to feel seen/heard/understood by them.”
“I just want us to be closer.”
These can be very difficult feelings and experiences to face on your own, and can cause severe distress. Having a couples therapist can help you navigate challenges with less stress and more success.
Ready to get started?
You are taking a very positive step by beginning therapy. Please fill out the contact form and Stacey will reach out to you soon.